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DO THIS:
GAIN CONFIDENCE
I have a list that I use in some of my
classes and workshops titled "What It Takes." It consists of
about 20 attributes an artist must have to achieve success and public
recognition. Talent is nowhere on the list. It simply isn't as important
as the other stuff these days.
Confidence ranks at the very top. It is,
without doubt, the most critical ingredient in your recipe for success.
I have several clients who, I would say, can list lack of confidence as
their number one stumbling block. Why are so many artists lacking it?
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Jacqueline
Myers-Cho, Follow the Leader. Mixed-mediums
collage,
12 x 16 inches. ©The
Artist http://www.myerscho.com
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Confidence isn't easy to acquire. Most
people have an air of confidence because of the way they were raised. I
can honestly say this is where most of my confidence comes from. My
parents raised me to believe I could do anything as long as I put my
mind to it. I took lessons in piano, ballet, golf, archery, horseback
riding, and, yes, even art. Lots of art.
In my experience, artists who lack
confidence usually developed their art later in life. They didn't attend
art school and this, to them, is an obstacle. They don't
"hang" in artist circles, so they don't know the lingo, the
happenings, the resources, or the trends. They have existed on their own
for quite some time and are reluctant to test the waters. This is not to
say that all artists who emerge later in life are lacking in confidence,
but if this sounds like you, you're not alone.
Confidence is gained when someone else
gives your art a stamp of approval. At each step in your career, someone
is around to help build your confidence. They may not know it, but
they're the ones who keep you going. When you're young, it's a parent or
an art teacher. When you're just starting to show your work to the
public, it is a friend or other artist. When you're getting serious,
it's a dealer, critic, or curator. With each nod of the head, you gain a
little more confidence.
Everyone's afraid of something. The trick
is getting past or using the fear to your advantage. As the title of a
popular book notes, "feel the fear and do it anyway." Show
your work first to someone who visits your home, then put it in your
local salon or coffee shop, then enter a juried exhibition.
Every step is a big one. Every step
requires a new level of confidence. |